It was about seven month Ago, when actress BCL lost her husband, Ashraf Sinclair, due to a heart attack.
September is the month of Ashraf and Noah (their son)’s birthday and this is the first, they celebrate those events without him.
BCL posted on her IG’s memories of their last trip to Melbourne and stated it was a pure love, manifested.
Unfortunately, it is hard not to feel for them especially in this part of the statement:
“We can be crazy, we can be cool, we can be who we want to be… this is us”, Ashraf Sinclair
Yes, relationship is hard and to find two soul who are comfortable to be themselves and can have fun and do crazy stuff together, it is rare.
However, too much love is hard on both.
BCL is finding it hard to move on, she got so much to give him yet he is no longer with us.
There are many couple out there, using love as an excuse to hurt each other without knowing it.
Maybe they want to protect each other
maybe their love is too strong that it starts to hurt each other.
It is hard, not everyone who left is because of hatred or anger, some are because of love.
Move on is hard but if it is the best for you both,
go and take the step
forget the past
look forward to future
and if you do still care, pray in your own way
that he/she is happy
being happy is the hardest in life
At least you both have once happy together
whatever has changed
the memories are still there
and no one can take that away
May everyone finds their own way of loving themselves
and being happy in life.